"Oh, I'm a definite supporter of imagination. I'm referring to those harmful rebel thoughts and feelings that need to be put in their proper place. For instance, after my husband died, I couldn't get out of living in the past. I kept thinking about the past, being angry that we didn't get to do half of the things we'd dreamed of doing together. It consumed me. Then a friend challenged me not to allow those thoughts in. That seemed impossible, but I decided to let myself be sad on the fifteen of every month. Whenever I was sad, I'd tell myself to stop it, that on the fifteenth I'd be sad all day long." - Cindy Martinusen-Coloma.



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